A Step At A Time

A Step At A Time

17 May 2016 » A Step At A Time

It has been a decade since i last blogged, i had sworn off social media and finally got a new hobby, gossiping, i found it more soothing than blogging. In gossip i had immediate feedback, i got more info concerning the other party.....the list as to why gossip is much better is endless. It is true what they say though, a persons first love never dies and mines blogging.So here is the latest.... i hit a boda boda guy with my car last evening as i was driving home from work, it was a nasty scene...

08 May 2015 » A Step At A Time

There is a lot of noise out there on what cheating really is!  According to me its more of a gray area not so much black and white as most of you would like to think...so I personally came up with this list that I consider the best thing to ever happen to man kind since the invention of penicillin. This here, will be the savior of many modern day relationships. Here goes... Its not cheating if its girl on girl... so you walk in on your girl getting feisty with her best friend, she is not...

01 April 2015 » A Step At A Time

What is the most important thing in life ? The one thing without which the allure of life is lost? Some say money others say power and a few romantics will say Love... but Freedom I think, is the most valuable of all things, the freedom to say NO, the freedom to say YES, the freedom to forgive and the freedom to hold on to that which hurts the soul if you so wish. The freedom to choose what feels right and the freedom to choose happiness even if it is just but a short lived feeling! I wish for...

08 March 2015 » A Step At A Time

I just got to chapter 11 of fifty shades of grey and....lord Jesus! Jeso! Holy shit, is it hot in here? Phew!! Anyway, *fanning myself* am definitely a little bit excited by all the ravishing...the alpha male domineering, oh and the countless orgasms ooooh* what is it I wanted to write about again? ....oh yeah, the money concept!! But first, the depression that comes with reading the romantic rendezvous of Ana and Mr. Grey! How can one one woman be so lucky , every woman dreams of a perfect '...

27 February 2015 » A Step At A Time

I had sworn off the subject of Kenyan socialites but this just got to me...what you ask? OK, so yesterday as am going through a few pictures on instagram I happen to come across a little video posted by pretty little miss thang' , goes by the name Huddah the boss chic , which is quite old coz nearly 15% of all girls on instagram call themselves bosses and am here wondering, "who dafuq are you a boss to?" Anyway back to the story... so in this little video she's wearing a pair of diamond...

05 February 2015 » A Step At A Time

My life is in a runt right now ... I feel stuck in a very weird place and I am completely clueless on what I should do to make it  meaningful once again! I am currently the king(yes KING) of jobless corner and until i get a job i cant get anything done. I wake up, watch a comedy series, spread the bed , watch a few more episodes, eat a smokie, shower, watch the remaining episodes as i obsess over what to eat for supper, eat, internet, sleep. The next day i repeat the same boring routine! I...

01 January 2015 » A Step At A Time

Its a brand new year!! Whoop! whoop! I will avoid complaining and start appreciating things and people around me more...yeah sit down and read my resolutions *am one of those guys* but first, I have to point out a tintsy wintsy thing that bugged me this festive season...Ummmh... The "Happy holidays friends" God forgive me for being this unappreciative but... Am I the only one that got the long emotional messages from people I haven't spoken to in over a year! In fact, prolly *I hate that slang...

02 December 2014 » A Step At A Time

I am so sick and tired of hearing our politicians blame the government for the recent insecurity cases. Don't get me wrong ...am not supporting the government or trying to paint it in good light. In fact I think its time people like ole lenku retired back to herding cattle in their father's boma.But i still wonder, must a person sit on the presidential seat to give his valuable advice on how to combat terrorism? If indeed they care about Kenya and want the best for it, don't you at least think...

26 November 2014 » A Step At A Time

*picks up mic* *clears throat*I have a feeling I am no longer as cool as I used to be.I am currently a twenty something year old who hardly parties anymore or tries out new stuff...its the kind of twenty something where you spend 70% of your day scared of the future and praying really hard you don't end up a failure. All your past mistakes flash before your eyes.... like that time you drunk too much and had a one night stand with a total stranger that probably did not look so healthy...too...

14 November 2014 » A Step At A Time

I happened to watch the video of the lady who was stripped naked by some stupid ass, broke ass, horny ass touts who've probably not seen any p*#sy since their mothers pushed them out! Poor woman... It is so heartbreaking what nairobi has turned into. If it were some "nyangechoma" village maybe we could excuse their barbaric behavior but Nairobi cbd?? Washamba hao....and what makes it worse is the double standards those horny pricks have. Were it a white woman in a hot pant passing by, none of...

14 November 2014 » A Step At A Time

"Nobody is interested in your success other than you!!"...  I remember our lecturer telling us that in class and students mumbling in detest but honestly speaking, ...I couldn't agree with him more! You think people lose sleep over that promotion you are waiting for? Nobody gives a f**k,  believe me... Unless of cos they depend on you financially . Your failures on the other hand....ooh.... now that, hahaa..people live for that shit. They enjoy saying stuff like, "poor dude, whatever happened...

11 November 2014 » A Step At A Time

I recently read the hyped up article by Njoki Chege and here is the vibe I got about her which am guessing all the pissed off men did to.......not that it matters but am just going to put it out there nonetheless;1. Her idea of a romantic setting is one with a diamond in it. You know, if you hail from Roysambu or south B there is no way you could match up to her standards unless you are a jewelry thief.2. Her hobby is collecting romantic antiques...rich old geezers. If you are below the age of...

10 November 2014 » A Step At A Time

I recently changed my blogs Name from one step at a time to Random Rants. Reason? Well one step at a time sounds so encouraging and life changing...which is so misleading because I never post life changing stories.I am a journalist without a purpose, all I do is rant. Rant about my life, rant about men, friends and sometimes, I take it to a whole other level and rant about the universe. What am trying to say is, am too busy ranting to encourage any lost soul.So its official, Random Rants will...

09 November 2014 » A Step At A Time

Here lies a list of things I hate in Men! I call them the sinful traits of men...Those with such traits should be arrested and burned at the stake (OK that's a bit extreme) but you get the drift....The Conquest ManNow this is the kind of man that  keeps tab on all the pussy he's put his dick in. His main aim in life is to copulate with more women than mswati himself. Where do I even start on this one...well its kiddish, immature, evil, witchcraft, abomination, ebola-ish, apocalyptic and plain...

26 October 2014 » A Step At A Time

I would hate to end up like them, I want to enjoy life in the simplest of forms. Nothing fancy, nothing flashy just life! But that is the hardest thing to do in this goddamn century. With all this social media platforms, Its like everyone has to conform otherwise you are dubbed uncool. Or people just assume you are poor! Take instagram for instance, everybody's life is awesome...literary! Everyone captions their pictures "my life is awesome" and don't get me wrong...I appreciate positivity but...

25 October 2014 » A Step At A Time

Just the other day a friend of mine lost somebody close to her...and I could not help but wonder what is the point of our existence or "living", if you want it to sound meaningful, if at the end of the day we just die. I know most of our religions believe in life after death but to a critical thinker its just that, a mere belief. Yet somehow it gives an individual a deep sense of peace even at the moment of death...research shows that non religious people are most scared of death, I guess its...

16 June 2014 » A Step At A Time

I am curious if you guys also think its always best to wait for a man to make the first move. Personally i think it is. I have always taken the view that a man who is interested will make his interest known, and if he doesn't he is probably not that into you. And maybe you should just take a hint and walk away with the little shred of dignity you have left, well i think its best to do that before you get to a point where you simply wanna hang yourself.When I have attempted to pursue guys in the...

09 June 2014 » A Step At A Time

I have a tendency of making people feel a little more important than they actually are in my life. I let people down easy even when they disgust me, am the kind of girl that will keep contact with my one night stands so that they do not think i used them for mere sex and sometimes, actually most times i laugh out loud to some of the stalest jokes just to make the other person feel a little better about themselves.I used to think that kind of behavior was okay and its what everyone does but...

30 May 2014 » A Step At A Time

I cannot look myself in the mirror right now, and its not because of the pale look am wearing this morning as a result of drinking myself silly yesterday. I am more embarrassed with the events that took place and honestly, i feel like a disgrace to all collected ladies out there.Am the only person i know that seems to think alcohol is the perfect medium of communication. so what do i do? every time i get drunk, i think of all the things i could never bring myself to say sober and dial up people...

21 May 2014 » A Step At A Time

 Its amazing the number of perverted friends i have on Facebook. Every time i share a post tagged sex... 90 percent of the traffic is from you guys, yes you! i see you!! I get double the hits,but the problem with getting amazing hits on a post is, the next day i feel very blank and empty. its like every idea i come up with sounds shitty as hell.Anyway, am thinking of writing about careers and education and tagging it ''blow jobs'' or  ''is it time to try anal?'' God, that sounds dirty! yes,......

19 May 2014 » A Step At A Time

This post may contain graphic content considered offensive by some of you. Parental guidance is advised ...So, advise to the wise from the wise lol , Never sleep with a person you are in love with!! No that came out wrong...more like never sleep with someone for the first time after you have fallen in love with them. Unconventional? think about it .....if he makes your heart skip a beat and distorts your breathing rhythm every time he walks by oh, and every time he touches you your stomach...

17 May 2014 » A Step At A Time

Yesterday was epic! As a way of saying bye bye to alcohol (yes I still plan on quitting) ,I decided to go out with an old friend or rather my "high school sweet heart" in his own words. We were sipping a little bit and we thought, why not turn this up? His friend had a few joints and we decided to step out and light them up (notice how bad ass I sound right now)After we were done breaking the Law, we started taking a stroll to waft the smell away from our clothes before we could go back to the...

16 May 2014 » A Step At A Time

Today i will avoid talking about shit in my life and concentrate on the positive. Like my friends who i love to death and my family all of whom i care for deeply not to forget my amazing Man who is the major reason for my existence.I will no longer dwell on people who do not add value to my life, i will learn to walk away cause i know am worth so much more and i realize i cannot turn evil people into good people. I know i have a high level of tolerance but I am not a miracle worker.Today i...

14 May 2014 » A Step At A Time

At the risk of sounding 40, am gonna go right ahead and say this. Hip hop music is bad!! Yes, i just went there ....it is bad for your mind, soul and spirit and i would never advice anyone to listen to it. In fact if you are yet to decide on a genre of music, settle for jazz!!Ever since i started listening to this destructive music (lil wayne and the likes) my dreams have changed from butterflies, babies and a nice home in the suburbs to guns, weed and running around with gangsters *no offence...

12 May 2014 » A Step At A Time

They say a real relationship or rather friendship begins after your first argument, cause then you get to to see and experience the ugly side of a person. From that you can make up your mind on whether you are willing to overlook the ugly and let them into your life.This weekend i went out with a certain "friend" of mine. I say friend in quotes cause even i don't know how to describe our relationship. It is complicated i guess, we try to reel each other emotionally in only to destroy and wreck...

07 May 2014 » A Step At A Time

There comes a certain time in every woman s life when everyone is up on your neck about Marriage. Ladies you probably know what am talking about. I would like to think of myself as a little too young for that but my mum and aunt think different. The first time i told them i was working at the airport, their reactions were "Nice so when are you bringing your pilot boyfriend home?" NO! i do not unbutton my shirt every time a plane touches down and flirt with the captain. Not to forget the time i...

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